pain and selfishness.

i was noticing tonight that the more pain i experience the more i focus on myself. that pain could be used as a tool or a catalyst to help others in similar or worse situations, however i choose to focus on me and my pain...it consumes me.

the process of an adult.

not an overnight

young adult to adult

what makes the transition?

kids

responsibility

a mindset

an attitude

personal responsibility

in relationships

in life

how you see the world

the older i become, and i've still much learning to do,

the more i think its in choices.

and its in believing.

believing you are something

and making appropriate choices that line up with that belief

go a very long way